Side bar...
In true crazy alcoholic manner though he did spend the night texting me telling me my best friend is afraid of me and I am delusional to think she was there to support me-- he reported that she was there to monitor my behavior because she is afraid of her kids being around me.
Ironically she was with me Sat night having a play date with our kids and we were having pizza and a glass of wine and we had some good laughs over his texts...
He has successfully played this game where he alienates friends from me for many many years and fortunately this friend sees right through him and its a welcome relief...