Ahhh yes, the drunken amnesia.
Are you willing to be with someone who blacks out and when blacked out has sex with another woman?
My XAH usto use his blackouts from drinking as excuses for bad bad behavior. Eventually I came to realize it does not make a difference if he remembers or not, there are still consequences and too many times those were affecting me and my children also.
I hope you see you deserve more.