Thanks to you both. I so appreciate your help. I didn't even think to google it like that...I had searched for help, but didn't think to put the word 'free' in front of it.
I think (think, mind you) that she has hit rock bottom. Losing her child and having to move away because we won't support her THERE after her last slide back I think MAY have made her realize she can't just 'get off' the xanax by herself. Her number one goal is to get her child back. But I know you just never know, so we'll work closely with any therapy she gets. Again, thanks so much. I will try those links.