My RAH had a short affair and a one night stand want for more while he was drinking. Can I ask how you found out? Did he tell you this info? How did that convo come up?
Mine knowledge came from a discovery on his computer, just about killed me, but it didn't. my H quit drinking that day and is working on everything else with me..
if he is drinking to excess and blacking out at home, this could have easily happened anywhere else too. It's time for him to fess up.
Hardly anyone would ever believe their spouse would do this to them
But the sad horrible thing is, they do it.