If in your gut you think you and kids would be better off without him
I'm not quite sure of that yet, that's the part of the problem.
He has not done any program or anything, because he doesn't have a problem(sarcasim)lol
This only if you still love him.
There's not much to love about him. But I of course care about him, (sometimes)
I did just get back from an alanon meeting, it was better than the first one. They were talking about courage to change. I have no courage I'm like the lion in the Wizard of Oz. My fear of change is not that things would be different it's if I am making the RIGHT Change.
Mindi