Originally Posted by Praying

Question for you...if he weren't going but you came down with a horrendous, honestly can't get off the floor stomach flu with chills, fever, etc the day before the party and knew it wouldn't go away in time...what would you do about the party? Remember, you are physically incapable of going (none of this codie working through the pain stuff). I'm curious, because I think this may be the same thing. It's just that you don't feel like you can give your current "symptoms" the same weight.

This really isn't a matter of toughing it out. Take care of you in whatever way you need.