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Old 02-24-2005, 11:19 AM
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walkingtheline
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What's that saying?

When God closes one door he always opens another?

Sit down and really list your options. Some that immediately come to mind for me are: Marriage counseling. Individual counseling for you and meetings to find out how to take care of you. Re-fi the house using an ARM with a low intro rate while you work on bettering your education or finding a higher paying job. Rent a room or two.

Options, girl, consider your options! My list is short, I'll bet you can come up with many more, some quite do-able, others a bit iffy but make the list and ponder it.

You are right, no one should live with abuse. The key here is what steps can you take to make things better for you and your children? Make a plan...or several...you, know, plan a and plan b. Then take steps to reach the goals! BE the queen of YOUR highway!
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