(((((Lily)))))
You can spend your time worrying and fretting about him, or ........................... you can take this gift of almost 30 months and WORK ON YOU. Figure out what YOU WANT. Do some "Pro/Con List" on the various subjects about him. But work on you.
Ask his HP to guide and protect him, than it's back to you. You too have been given a gift, a beautiful gift, freedom from the addiction and freedom from the addict, while you work on you and what you need to do for you, and DOING what you need to do for you.
Good luck and please don't forget to ENJOY this new ride.
Love and hugs,