Anns
My heart goes out to you.
I am learning about the controlling thing.
Knowing that I can't control him.
I am going to an Alanon meeting today.
Ever since the big argument the other night he has been better.
I have been away in another State for the past 15 years while he lived with his father.
So I have the guilt thing going on also about moving away.
I am trying to deal with that also.
I know he is a grown man--(I think) and has to figure this out for himself.
This is the 2nd time he has come to live with me---the first was 7 yrs ago, when we found out that his girlfriend was pregnant.
I let the both opf them come here, then they left 3 weeks before my grandson was born.
Needless to say I was not very happy.
Anyway it seems he only calls me when he needs something and has no place else to turn.
This time he has screwed everyone where he used to live and now he wants to get his life straightened out.
It just bothers me that he thinks the whole world waits for him.
example: meeting last night, he says he told them he would be alittle late--says to me it's ok---we are 1/2 hour late ---they don't let him in. I DID NOT SAY A WORD!!
Maybe some day he will learn.
Lacy54