Originally Posted by
jaynie04 
Who says the picture has to be of your husband? I would have no problem doing a little online research for a handsome face and putting that in a frame on my desk…it would be my little joke to myself.
Funny and tempting, but it's kind of crazy how many lies I've been telling for far too long to "protect" myself and keep the peace. My husband finally re-found his honesty in rehab and AA. I've been seriously working on that too.
It sounds like the men are trying to be friendly and don't know what else to bring up. I get a lot of questions from people I know but haven't seen in a long time that I don't know how to deal with either. I currently don't have a job and don't know what to say when they ask what I've been doing. "Trying to get through one day at a time" doesn't seem like the proper response.
