I have no aversion to AA meetings however I am spending nine hours a week in my intensive outpatient program, an hour a week in marriage therapy, and another hour a week in individual counseling. I also work fulltime and am a mother. I am completely comitted to sobriety otherwise I would never have voluntarily decided to do all of this. If I am not committed I lose my daughter which no bottle of wine is worth. That said you all make a good point in that those who move on and get better are likely not necessarily spending time on these forums. Thank you for the reminder:-)