Originally Posted by
JustAGirl1971 
I do have my moments of grief and my moments of weakness, but mostly I just feel relief. I feel like I grieved the loss of our marriage the last two years and I'm finally done? Am I the only one, or is there anyone else out there like me? Or, will this feeling of contentment come crashing down a few days, weeks, or months from now and I'll really miss him?
Dear JustAGirl1971, it has been 3 months now, since I left my STBXAH. I feel exactly the same way as you are describing. I spent almost 3 years grieving and I feel that now, it is finally over and I can allow myself to relax and to build my own life back up from the ashes that living with him left me with.
I am so happy that you started this thread. I have had so many people looking at me strange when I have tried to explain the same thing. As if they don't believe me. Thank you!
Like I said, 3 months and no "missing him feelings" so far, and I feel stronger each day. Hugs to you!
