Originally Posted by
indirectvictim 
Yet, he chose alcohol over me.
I just can't understand how this could have happened...
Well I am an alcoholic and when we are engaged in our addiction all we care about is the booze. The goal is to get drunk and stay that way. That is how it was for me.
He actually gave you a gift even though you might not think that right now. He has saved you years of heartache. He is not ready to give it up and probably knows that you can't be snowed. That really is a good thing.