I'm sorry about your broken heart, I can remember when I first dated my xabf 6 months in I had a "talk" with him about his drinking.....low and behold stupid me believe his quacking and 4 1/2 yrs later my heart has been broken so many times into so many pieces I'm suprised I still have a heart. I'm going on 1 month of him being gone and cry everyday and he seems to be having the time of his life. I meant nothing to him. Oh how I wish I could go back and be strong/smart enough to say cya. And if in a month he does try "changing" RUN