My daughter did that to me the other day. I just can't get upset with her as she is so happy I am sober. That is probably how your hubby feels
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Also I know for her it is just hard to try to keep it a secret from everyone and in a way I don't think it is fair for me to ask her to. But I'm just talking about me here. I can understand it being new and not wanting everyone to know until you are ready.
And congrats on day 50 you are fabulous!