No, I suppose it doesn't really matter at all. Moving forward is what I need to focus on.
He seems to be having a real ah-ha moment of his own this week. He's doing therapy twice a week, doing AA every day, book study once a week, calls with his sponsor daily and he blows into a sober link thing every two hours that is monitored by his therapist and if he blows anything above a zero apparently his therapist, sponsor and myself will be notified. Personally, this wouldn't be the method that I would choose but he really likes having the accountability from his therapist and sponsor. The success rates from having accountability measures in place versus only AA meetings jumps from something like 5% to 80%. Anyway, he's sounding more healthy and adjusted and sober every single day, which is great, wonderful actually. I don't know why I'm thinking so much about the bad stuff yesterday and today.