Not entirely sure about what he is doing for his Recovery. He went to AA February of last year because he was court ordered to do a 6 week drunk driving program. The counselor at that time suggested it and he went to a couple of meetings, but according to him, they were overly religious and he said it was sad because "those" people had lost everything...their homes, their spouses, their life savings, their jobs etc. At the time a little bird in my head wanted to say..."you will too if you don't stop". But that birdy never sang loud enough back then. I think he didn't lump himself in with "that crowd". I'm thinking that he does now. I'm hoping that he does now.
But like you said...work on me and I'm doing that at this very moment.
Thanks