Originally Posted by
copperducky 
Could this really be the husband I married so long ago? Not sure what to think today.
I think everybody thinks that.
Yunno the outcomes?
At least this is what I think I have seen from the Previews . . .
Behind Door . . .
A. Still Drink, Drank, Drunk
OR
B. Stops Drinking, but not working a Program. Can become total jerks aka Dry Drunk. Sometimes worse than Door A.
OR
C. Stops Drinking, Fully Working the Program. THOSE can be some pretty wonderful people. Better than what we started with.
But for now...I'm just gonna let the hope ride ............
Hoping for Door C for you, me and everyone here.
And for now . . . WE work on US, right?
Alanon, The Steps, Celebrate Recovery, Help Others -- all that and a Bag of Chips.
How we get to be a better us, right? I mean I will feel Really Dumb if I get Door C, and I am still the bitter jackass that I have allowed dealing with all this stuff to become me.
Worse that happens from all that is maybe I get Door A or Door B -- but even with those, with a Better Me, I can deal with them Much Better.
Aint nothing but winning in this Casino.