Thanks Hopeful. I've worked in restaurants too so I know how it goes. That's part of the reason I was so annoyed by my overreaction. Last Saturday night they were slammed and he didn't get home until 12:30 (got a ride from a coworker), and it didn't bother me at all. Go figure. I am not beating myself up, just trying to be aware of what works and what doesn't. Hope you have a good day!