Hahahaha!!! 3 months of abstinence might kill me!!!!
I'm not nervous to do it on my own or worried what life will be like without him. a.) I was a single mother for quite a few years before we met and b.) it's not like he was "here" when he lived here, so I've basically been doing it on my own for 5 of the 8 years we've been together!!
But, I do agree with you on it might provide clarity for me!
BTW, thanks SparkleKitty!! I appreciate your words and knowledge!!!!