You have my pledge on that, spiderqueen.
Funny. In her last angry drunken voicemail before I changed my number (and hours after emailing that she'd never drink again) she said 'you're f***ed up - you are SO f***ed up'. Maybe my picker is, but I'm willing to work hard on that. For a second I really believed her - that I was the one being crazy here. I was just protecting myself.