Hi Lacy and welcome,
I am sure others will be along to offer their very wise advice, but i wanted to say hi, hang in there, and yes...... it is possible.....if he really really truly wants a better life - HE CAN DO IT! it's been known to happen.
Seems like he has a good start by going to meetings. May want to do the 90-90 (90 meetings in 90 days - but thats up to him). YOU should check out alanon or naranon meetings for guidance, support and coping techniques.
Hang in there,
J
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