Hey Firesprite, that book that I posted on this thread on page 3, you should check it out. I know you RAH does the whole anticipating your emotions thing that feels like codependency, that's what that book is about (except its geared toward the guy - like your RAH and my RAH.) I only read the first few pages last night but besides you talking about your RAH and this book I've never encountered anything that explains WHY he does that. My husband has been raving about what an eye opener it has been for him. Maybe it would help you or your RAH too? Thought I'd share.
