btw, Blake -- get ready for the Paint You Black part -- I am pondering whether that is Intentional Abuse over on the bpdfamily.com site -- someone helped me form this description --
"They paint you black, but the lying about you part to friends, family, co-workers, therapists etc... Is called a smear campaign, villification campaign or distortion campaign and can be forms of baiting, projection, and proxy recruitment."
At any rate, it is likely coming your way, as well, Blake -- so just giving you that head's up.