Originally Posted by
Mountainmanbob 
it may be time to take her for a good long talk with a Pastor or Priest ??
Bill W of AA
was called into his doctors office and told to bring his wife this time
the doctor straight out told Bills wife
to buy a pine box so as to be ready for his death
this rocked Bill in a way that he had not been rocked before
what I'm saying
sounds like it's time for a yet bigger wake up call
you and her are in a battle -- step up and fight
get serious -- you love her -- nothing wrong with that
Mountainman
I actually disagree with the notion that you are in a battle together with your wife. Addiction is HER battle, not yours. You choose to engage it, but her addiction is really not your problem to fix or be involved in. Perhaps, using that energy to help yourself feel better will yield a better result.