detox is what? 3, 4 days? just enough time to dry and start feeling "good" again...so why not drink? detox isn't a cure. rehab isn't a cure. she cannot or will not quit and stay quit. with all those detoxes under her belt, and the recommendations of rehab, meetings, support groups she KNOWS exactly what she needs to do. she just ain't doing it.
you'll never understand. you can only ACCEPT and then act from there.