hopeful4,
I am so sorry for your situation. That is exactly what I am trying to prevent and I don't want my children to hate me for a divorce but if I don't do something now I am going to lose myself.
I am desperate. I also feel that it won't matter if he gest help for himself or not because its also too little too late. At this point I really don't care if he does or if he doesn't and that makes me sad. How have I become so cold to a person who I once loved so much?
You are the third person in this forum who has told me to go to the other forum so I guess I should go check it out huh?
Thanks for sharing.