Thanks for this post. I really relate to what you are saying about not wanting to deal with things like phone messages. For me it extends to emails too. I get overwhelmed by all the inputs and want to hide to get some calm. It's been like that for me for a long time. I would drink to calm myself and also get the energy to tackle those kinds of things. I'm at 54 days so we're in a similar sobriety spot. I think I'm going to head to the store and get some Epsom salts and have a bath. I may have a little nap first. No drinking for either of us. Good for you for picking up the phone. I have a feeling things will turn out just fine and your call back will be positive.