Originally Posted by
Hawkeye13 
So does your signing for a check from the retirement account affect any settlement when you seperate? I don't get why he would bother to send it to your house unless there is some reason.
By the way, I think you are doing a fantastic job dealing with this stuff.
You have come so far so fast and should be very proud of yourself liloleme!
The only way it affects me is at then end of the year for tax time. I don't understand why he did also but that's him unpredictable.
Thank you, knowing I was not crazy and realizing how I was dealing with things in a dysfunctional situation helped me out allot.
I now understand If he is still using and not getting help he is still going to hurt me again and again and again. My husband is 36 years old with a mindset of a 14 year old. What can you expect from a 14 year old?