Originally Posted by
karate 
I'm not about , co existence with it in peace .
I'm going to grab it by the back of the head , and break its neck .
I guess my idea is not for everyone , but anything that has given me those problems -is my enemy , an enemy capable of killing me .
It needs to be taken serious and be angry at the stuff .
I'm mad at it for all the trouble it caused me .
That's sort of what we are saying. We are saying if you eliminate it completely there is nothing to fight. Fighting it only holds onto the problem and keeps it in your psyche. You will need to fight it tooth and nail in the beginning when the cravings are very strong but the sooner you are able to completely eliminate the alcohol equation in your life the sooner will no longer have to fight.