Originally Posted by
wantfreedom62 
Ouch Hammer, yes, that thread is similar deal, still reading it. [/I]
Yeah, you are likely dealing Full Blown Borderline.
Borderline Personality Disorder.
Borderline personality disorder - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
It has some different flavors, and we can much deeper, if you need.
The flavor you are dealing is as you described -- lie, seduce, manipulate, control.
The come-back-return stuff is called "The Recycle."
Big part to understand is that THIS IS WAY BEYOND an Addiction (or Alcohol) issue. You have been targeted and mind-funked. Your confusion is typical.
Zoso has been dealing with that aspect for almost 2 years, I think. She ran off, sent Z notes and pix that she had been doing while with him of at least two other guys, then married another and is now trying recycle Z, while still married.
THIS A VERY BAD NEWS PERSON. Get Away.
The bpdfamily.com site is full of stories like that, too.