I don't disagree with you Stung - I never felt like I was obsessed with RAH either. I BECAME obsessed though, in a bad way, over all that I didn't know or control.... it had nothing to do with HIM as a person, specifically.
Where is he? Who is he with/talking to/texting? Why won't he answer my texts/calls? Is this his dramatic BS or is something
really wrong this time? Should I check cell phone/credit card/bank accts online for "evidence" or "clues"? Why would he buy/do THAT?
WTH is he thinking???????