hopeful4----I say to just remember (over and over...LOL) that the other person is NOT going to like or agree when we undertake to change the status-quo. Nobody does. We really can't expect them to say:"I see that you are preparing to leave me. How can I make that process smooth and seamless for you?" Rarely happens.
You just have to grow a rhinoserous skin and let it all roll off.
I'm just saying........
dandylion