Well, last night I told my AH that I want him to sign a contract that states that this is a loan between my parents and him and that I am not tied to it in any way. He freaked out and said it is a dirty thing to do because it is just saying that I want to separate from him. HELLO???? Yes, I am prepared for his relapse and prepared to leave. How much more clear can I make it? I have told him this numerous times, he acknowledges that this is what I want. I am protecting myself at this point. He was pissy but ultimately will sign, he has no choice. Grrrr.....