hey HopeWorks!
Our stories are similar in that once I quit being controlling, managing and manipulating of my XRAH he found himself and recovery...and I found myself and recovery too. I do not think either of us would have found recovery together...and likely we'll just be friends but that's they way it's meant to be...and I know because it feels right...and for the first time every I am finding my true self. Letting go set us both free and I'm forever grateful.