Death is one of those things that we are all guaranteed, yet we never know when it will come knocking on our doors. This friend whom you don't speak with was probably realizing the inevitable. I'm not sure why you were a part of this equation is his head, but he got you out of bed and onto doing what you are supposed to be doing......Movie and massage. I would think that this was a divine intervention as well. Ken, you are fabulous. I am sorry that you have been feeling low. The move, new surroundings, starting over, and whatever else has been going on. A lot of healing and moving through the emotions. It all seems like a lot. I am glad that you feel safe with your emotions here and that you post. You are loved. Please have a good day. What movie are you going to see?