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Old 12-26-2013, 03:39 PM
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Carlotta
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Here are a few suggestions for you and Django since you are both new to going to AA:
1) Come in a bit early before the meeting, there will be a couple of people there so it is not that intimidating. Say hi to them, ask them if they need help making the coffee or setting up the chairs.
2) Stay for the full meeting: when at the beginning they ask if someone is new etc. say your name and tell them you'd like to get some numbers and you'd like to get a book.
3) Don't dash out after the meeting, take your time to put your coat on slowly etc. Chances are that a couple of people will approach you to chat with you. Don't worry, they don't bite and they might give you their numbers
4) Now you are home with a few numbers, I know the phone might weigh like a ton but use them. If you feel like drinking call someone.

Next suggestions is go to different meetings and find one you really like (meetings can be very different) and decide that it will be your home group. A home group is like your base, the place where you are comfortable, go on a regular basis and get to know the people.

I hope it helps.
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