I think you may want to know what AA means by unfortunates:
"Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way. They are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a way of life which demands rigorous honesty. Their chances are less than average"
used here, what it refers to is people whose IQ is so low, they cant even understand what honesty means. those unfortunates don't have the mental capacity to know how to use a computer.
"Should I say "eff it"?
nope. yer worth sobriety.
what I think ya should do is become willing to go to any lengths for victory over alcohol.then get into action. since ya mention AA, id suggest ya get to a meeting.