Advice for those urges and cravings when they come? You bet. Dee put together a great post about
urge surfing. There is another great post of his called
Thanksgiving Survival Guide. I am sure that the wisdom travels well to other holiday celebrations too.
Your question 'do I want it?' has already been answered, I think. You are at a fork in the road, you can go one of two ways. You must decide and go down the road you must, but that turn is right now. Which way have you chosen?