The only person my sobriety is important to is me. Taking a drink IMHO. Is akin to me playing Russian Roulette. I just don't see the attraction of doing either. I have no control as to what others do, or how they act. Being a sober alcoholic doesn't negate the fact that we are all human beings. All human beings are far from perfect. Me even attempting to judge other's quality of sobriety is just another item in the long list of human defects.