Oh Jend....seems things really have piled up. Sending you a big cyber hug and prayers for strength and patience. How frustrating your son thinks living with a dealer is a good option. When he finally opts to "get back to you" perhaps the offer is null and void..
I do wish I could fast forward through the holidays. The added pressure really does impact the tipping point. I'm trying to keep my expectations really low and fortunately have some things planned for myself that I'm really looking forward to. I've wasted too many holidays wishing things could be different. Well they aren't.. it is what it is. It's up to me to make the best of it. We'll get through and thank goodness we have this site to draw strength from!