Welcome, FrustratedHubby.
Sounds like you've made the decision about your marriage, so I want to emphasize what LifeRecovery said. I would encourage you to continue going to AlAnon and seeing the therapist. There are a lot of feelings that come out of living with an active alcoholic, and often you don't realize you have them until the alcohol/alcoholic is removed. So, I think you may still have a lot to work through and encourage you to continue seeking support and taking care of yourself. Please keep reading & posting.
Last edited by CarryOn; 12-14-2013 at 05:05 PM.
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