Thanks Marie. I really appreciate the input. Part of what scares me is that AH is from a long line of raging alcoholics who all drink, smoke, and live into their 80s, then keel over dead. LOL. That would just be my luck.
My attorneys are working on some support language that would make it challenging for AH to get money out of me. Hoping he'll buy at least part of it.
Thank you everyone for the input, it really really helps.