Hey, no probs - just wish I could be more help but i'm useless until I've had 2 coffees first thing in the morning
Yeah, I've read it's a big life change for them when we get sober, but in truth I don't think i'd be too happy either with the things he's doing right now - there is only so much blame we can take for having drank in the past.
Without knowing him or seeing you together, it's hard to know how to reply but I do know that you can go to relate alone if you have to
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