DS is in counseling and has been for a while. Unfortunately, it's really slow going because he's not really talking honestly to anyone.
Those darn kids. *sigh* I've gone through the same thing. I think my middle kid (who's 15) sat in her therapist's office without saying bah for a full year. Made me want to tear my hair out!!! My youngest one has outright refused -- I mean, to the point of acting-like-an-octopus-on-the-doorframe refused -- counseling until just recently.
I hope he starts talking. There's so much pain inside these kids and they so need somewhere safe to let it out. I just wish they'd understand that and take advantage of the opportunity, kwim?