I never said I was taking money out of his account, so I guess I should of clarified that. What my original question was changing the passcode to online banking to see if I need somehow deposit money in to keep up with the important bills in his name. I am sorry that maybe my comments/behavior sounds co-dependent but this whole time I am in survival mode. Some of you know what I'm talking about. Some do not. I have called the hotline (thank you for that) and I am exhausting every resource I can. I am not going to change his passcode, because obviously I don't need any legal trouble. I am just shocked by some of the not so gentle responses.
Good conversation though......