I came across SR while my rah was in rehab. During one of our counseling sessions the dr asked if I had any help, when I mention sr he lit up, complimented me on the choice and later I recommended the site to my husband, I'd seen him check it out a few times and once he asked what my un was but I didn't tell him. I don't mind if he reads my posts but I'm not pointing them out. In no way would I ever want him to use my thoughts or words as ammo which I could almost guarantee would happen.