Can I ask, because I too have a husband who may not drink as badly as me, but does still have a drinking problem... in the past when I had quit drinking he would send me to the liquor store for him... and this time 2 days after I told him I poured the rest of the liquor we had down the sink cause it was either that or drink it, he snuck booze in and was drunk the next 2 days.... Is it possible to be sober, living in such conditions? I often feel a lot of anger and resentment towards him because of his denial and disregard for my needs... and that anger (i think I am just now realizing) can lead to being one of my triggers.