I have the same problem.
Husband was the one who managed me for the most part for years.
Now that I'm sober, he is the one who is drinking himself to sleep most nights.
I spent my childhood putting my mom to bed when she would pass out,
so this kind of enabling bothers me now and so I just leave him there
and can hear the snoring through the walls.
He has been trying to moderate some, and he is overall a much better drinker in
terms of personality than I ever was, so I also feel guilty being bothered by it,
especially after all my crap. But these days I would much prefer a dry house,
even though I am not tempted to drink his vodka. I just don't like being around it.
I love mine too dearly, and want to support him, but it is getting pretty old.