I am a long time county jail visitor. Sad but true. My husband has always said he would never let me go to jail if he could have prevented it. I know he would do time for things I'm EQUALLY guilty of.
I count my blessings and lucky stars I have not been incarcerated.
Its good your keeping your peace. One day at a time. That's all. I did one day .... at a time and still do. Four years later I'm sober, have my own place, car, pay my bills, hold a job and have self respect and love for myself. Those one days add up. Keep it up!
You shouldn't have gone to jail. He was unlucky and got caught. He shouldn't have been buying dope. Period.